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He was 72. He wasn't dizzy. He hadn't been drinking. His knees just gave out. I'm 63, and I'd started grabbing the furniture the same way he did. Here's what I learned about why, and the one thing I changed that same night.
Gary Walsh, 63 · Retired mechanic · As told to The Active Years
Updated 21 October 20266 min read231 comments
Frank was reaching for a screwdriver on the top shelf. That's all. Something he'd done ten thousand times in that garage.
His knees went. He went down, and his head hit the concrete. He was gone before the ambulance got there.
The coroner said it was the fall that killed him.
But I know what really killed him.
He stopped moving. About six months before.
Because his feet hurt. His knees hurt. His back hurt.
So he sat.
"And his body forgot how to catch him."
At the funeral
Not because I wanted to. Because standing hurt.
It started small. So small I didn't count any of it.
The little compromises
None of it seemed like a big deal at the time. Then I noticed something else.
My balance was off.
I wasn't old. I was sixty-three. But my body was shutting down the same way his did.
Because when you stop moving, your body stops working. Your muscles weaken. Your balance goes. Your joints stiffen up.
And one day, you fall. Maybe in the garage, like Frank. Maybe in the shower. On the stairs. Getting out of the car.
Where doesn't really matter.
"What matters is whether your body can still catch you. And mine couldn't anymore."
That night
1 in 4
adults aged 65 and over falls every year.
2×
Falling once doubles your chances of falling again.
#1
Falls are the leading cause of injury death in adults 65 and over.
Source: U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), older adult falls data.
And here's the part that got me. Most people who fall don't tell their doctor. Frank never mentioned the wobbles. Not to his doctor. Not to my wife. Not to anyone.
I hadn't either.
At the wake, my wife Linda said something I couldn't shake: "He was fine six months ago. Then he just... gave up."
She didn't mean in his head. She meant his body. He stopped fighting to stay on his feet, and his body took that as permission to quit.
I wasn't going to let that happen to me. But I also wasn't going to pretend the pain wasn't real.
The first ten minutes out of bed, my feet felt like I was walking on broken glass. My lower back seized up if I stood too long. My knees ached going up the stairs.
And I'd tried to fix it. Properly tried.
Everything I tried
Insoles
Squashed flat by noon. Every brand.
Expensive running shoes
The kid at the shoe shop swore they'd help. Soft as a pillow, and about as much support.
Custom orthotics
Cost a small fortune. Did nothing I could feel.
Physio
Months of it. My knees were worse after some sessions than before.
A pair of shoes my mate Steve mentioned in passing
By the end of the first day, I felt solid on my feet. First time in years.
What Steve said
Steve and I worked in the same workshop for twenty years. He came to the funeral. Afterwards, outside, he mentioned that his wife Carol had bought him some orthopedic walking shoes after her own father had a fall.
"Her thinking was, if I'm going to be on my feet, I need shoes that actually hold me up," he said. "My back pain was gone in about two weeks."
I didn't believe him. Then he said the thing that made sense of all of it.
"You haven't got a getting-older problem, Gaz. You've got a shoe problem."
Think about what most of us wear. Flat shoes with nothing in them. Or squishy foam that feels nice in the shop and collapses the minute you put weight on it. Either way, there's no structure holding your foot steady.
Your feet aren't absorbing the shock
So your joints are. Every step. Thousands of times a day.
Your knees, hips and back compensate
They bend and tilt out of line to keep you upright. Day after day. Year after year.
Until one day they just give out
And when they do, you're not catching yourself. You're going down. Hard.
I fixed engines for forty years. If a customer came in with a car pulling to one side and chewing through its tyres, you didn't start with the steering wheel. You checked what was touching the road.
Nobody had ever checked what was touching the road on me.
That night I looked them up. They were 50% off, shipping was free, and there was a 30-day money-back guarantee. If they didn't work, I'd send them back and accept that this was just how it was now. I had nothing to lose. Frank had lost everything.
I ordered them before bed.
Four days later
Round the house first. Then the errands I'd been putting off.
Around the house
Stable. Supportive. Not stiff. They felt like they were holding my foot, not just sitting under it.
The errands
The hardware store. The supermarket. The post office. A good few hours on my feet.
That evening
My feet didn't hurt. My back didn't hurt. And when I walked, I felt solid. Like my body remembered how to hold me up.
This is one man's experience. Everyone's body is different and results vary.
Three weeks in
Walked the dog every morning. We took Biscuit in after Frank. She's never had so many walks.
Mowed the lawn with the push mower. Front and back.
Stood in the garage for two hours sorting through Frank's tools. Didn't sit down once.
No pain. But that wasn't even the best part.
My balance came back. Because my body wasn't fighting my shoes anymore. It was moving the way it's supposed to.
One man's experience. Results vary.
Linda noticed before I said anything. "You seem steadier," she said one night. I didn't tell her about the shoes. I wasn't sure yet.
Then one morning she was at the bottom of the stairs with her coffee, and I came down without holding the rail.
She just looked at me. And I could see it on her face.
Relief.
Because she'd spent the last year watching me turn into her dad. And she didn't want to bury me next.
Frank stopped moving because it hurt too much to keep going. I'm not going out like that.
I can't control everything. Nobody can. But I can control what I stand on every single day.
The shoes Steve told me about
"The difference between staying on your feet, and sitting it out."
A car's only as good as what's touching the road. Here's what's under mine now, in plain English:
It's built into the shoe, not a bit of foam you slip in. Holds your foot in line so your knees and hips aren't twisting to make up for it.
Cushioned, but firm underneath. Not the squishy stuff that sinks. It soaks up the jolt off concrete so your joints don't have to.
Your toes can spread out the way they're meant to. That gives you a wider, steadier base to stand on.
Keeps you standing square instead of rolling. Linda says I stand taller now. Breathable on top too, so they're fine all day.
And they don't look like orthopedic shoes, which I was worried about. Smart enough for dinner out, tough enough for a day in the garage. They go with jeans, chinos, whatever. They come in a few colours, in standard and wide.
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Frank had every one of these signs, and none of us put it together. Tap the ones that fit you:
Ticked two or more? Here's what nobody told Frank: if you shuffle when you walk, you're not being careful. You're already falling, just in slow motion. Start with what you're standing on. And tell your doctor about the wobbles. Frank never did.
And if you're reading this about your husband or your dad: do what Carol did. Don't wait for him to bring it up. Men like us never do.
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Bill H., 69
The nightstand thing. I do that every single morning and never thought twice about it. Ordered a pair. My wife's been on at me for a year.
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Gary Walsh Author
Good man, Bill. Wear them as your everyday shoes, not just for special occasions. And mention the wobbles to your doctor too. Took me far too long.
Sue M.
My dad had a fall last year and was never quite the same. When I saw my husband holding onto the kitchen counter to stand up, I ordered these that night. He grumbled. He wears them every day now.
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Ken D., 74
Took me about a week to really notice. Feet first, then my back settled down. The big thing for me is I feel planted. I'm not watching every step anymore.
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Tom R., 66
The bit about squishy running shoes is spot on. Spent a fortune on the "comfiest" ones in the shop and my knees were worse. These feel firmer underfoot but much more comfortable by the end of the day. Go wide if you've got wide feet.
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Frank didn't get a warning he understood. You just did.
A fraction of what I spent on orthotics and physio that didn't help.
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Wear them for 30 days. Walks, errands, the garage, the stairs. If you don't feel the difference, send them back for a refund. Like I said: nothing to lose.
No shoe can promise that, and anyone who says otherwise isn't being straight with you. What good shoes can do is give your feet a steady, supportive base instead of a flat or collapsing one. Health services like the UK's NHS list well-fitting, supportive footwear among the simple things worth checking. If you've had a fall or keep feeling unsteady, please talk to your doctor too.
Your feet set the alignment for everything stacked on top of them, thousands of times a day. Supportive, shock-absorbing shoes help reduce the impact and imbalance that can strain your knees, hips and lower back. They're not a replacement for medical care: if your pain is severe or keeps getting worse, see your doctor.
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Everyone's different. Some men feel steadier and more comfortable in the first few days, like Gary did. For others it takes a couple of weeks. Wear them as your everyday shoes, not just for special occasions, and give them the full 30 days. That's what the guarantee is for.
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P.S. If you skipped to the end, here's the short of it. My father-in-law's knees gave out in his garage at 72, six months after pain made him stop moving. At his funeral it hit me that I was wobbling out of bed and gripping the stair rail the same way. Insoles, running shoes, orthotics, physio. None of it touched it. It was what I was standing on. They're 50% off right now, with free shipping and 30 days to send them back. The first wobble is the warning. Don't ignore it like Frank did.
Don't Wait Until It's Too LateThis is an advertisement and not a news article, blog or consumer protection update. The story above is a dramatised account for illustrative purposes; names and details have been changed. Reader comments are shared for illustration. Fall statistics are from the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. The content is general information only and is not medical advice. OrthoFit shoes are not a medical device and are not intended to diagnose, treat or prevent any condition, including falls. Individual results vary. If you have had a fall, feel unsteady, or have severe, persistent or worsening pain, see your doctor or a qualified health professional.
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